A few years ago, I had lunch with the U.S. Children’s Poet Laureate, J. Patrick Lewis. My heart pounded as I carefully placed each bite of food in my mouth, making sure not to dribble down my front. You would think we talked about book marketing, themes, or the writing process. In reality, I drew a complete blank and didn’t utter a word. I simply listened as the conversation bounced between the other authors at my table. It was astounding just to be in the midst of these highly acclaimed writers, people who defined themselves by following their dreams and reaching goals that others either didn’t understand or thought were unrealistic. Time spent with creative people, listening to humanities presentations, or visiting with authors during autograph sessions is educational and inspirational.

We all need education and inspiration

Having spent a large portion of my life in school, I fully believe in the value of formal learning, but I am also a supporter of self-education and continued education. Meeting with other writers, artists, and creatives may be just what you need to learn how to set those goals and keep you moving in pursuit of higher aspirations. When you experience these kinds of human connections, you come away with a new-felt desire to stay on task, and more than likely, you’ll feel encouraged to keep pursuing your big dream. Life is full of choices, but I refuse to stop learning; I refuse to still the lifelong learner within me. Knowledge is where we find our greatest riches.

You have to live to understand how to live

Go to the parties, have lunch with the authors, and meet with other like-minded people. Even if you only listen, you will be enriched as others share their triumphs while you absorb what they’ve learned about life and how to live it. It will encourage you to stay focused and keep moving towards your own visions. You may even feel like Douglas Spaulding in Ray Bradbury’s Dandelion Wine when he made a fantastic discovery: “I’m alive … I’m really alive!”